We’ve been having some trouble with our three year old and whining.  Whining and tantrums, from my perspective, are one of the hardest things I’ve had to deal with as a parent.  I really, REALLY don’t like to hear it.  It communicates ungratefulness, an unwillingness to accept my authority, a lack of trust that what I’m saying is the best choice….

I have been very frustrated and overwhelmed with it lately. 

Then yesterday in church, I started thinking about how I often do the same thing with God as His daughter.  I ask for something and He responds, “Not now, Honey…”  But my heart whines, “but Daddddyyy…. I want it NOW.” 

“No, Kristi… not yet.”

I often say to my Girls, “You have sooo much.  Remember you’ll lose what you are not thankful for…”  That’s one of the consequences we use often around our house.

How true for me too. 

I have been challenged lately with the basic truth of leading by example.  I need to listen to all of the advice I give to them each day and  respond to my Father in the same way I ask them to respond to me.

Here are some examples:

• You know I don’t often have to tell you ‘no’ to something you want this much.  Please trust that I’m choosing what’s best for you.
• Be kind to each other.
• Remember you are representing our family.
• Remember that obedience means responding right away, all the way, and with a happy heart.

Can you think of any more?